When you unable to afford child care, you want to do it by yourself.  Child care is very expensive,  and,  when both parents are working it can be a hard task.

Being a parent, is a tough decision,  but we are faced with many responsibilities.  When you have children as working parents,  the work should be shared between the both of you.  To avoid frustration, or disagreements, make easy planning.  Work alternate shifts,  so that one of you,  get to  stay with the children at all times, so your child will have someone,  to talk to if necessary.

When dad works the morning shift,  mom can take care of the children, and vice versa. Simple things like, helping around the house,  and taking care of your children in that time,  can save you the cost of having to pay for child care. 

Though it is very important for parents to spend time with their children,  parents still got to work to provide for their families. 

Parents must show love and concern for their children,  and,  one another to make sure their children are happy,  and,  that their  relationship, as a husband and a wife,  does not fall apart.