steps to being cool:

1. always keep your cool, if you feel like going out of control like crying or screaming or something like that take a deep breath and relax and excuse yourself.

2. have a positive attitude, people like other people who have positive attitudes and are not negative and remember to always smile :]

3. be yourself, people like you for who you are not who you pretend to be.

4. be friendly and dont make fun of others even if you dont like them ;

5. dont care what other people think of you.

6. dont really try to look emo or anything, you can wear anything because your personality will always stay through, just try to fit in.

7. be fit, clean, and smell good and try to be good at something, like sports.

8. making jokes is cool and funny, but dont make jokes about other people, thats not cool, and dont bully others.

9. make friends and have people respect you.

10. look people right in the eye when they’re talking to you, if you look down you wont get the respect you need.

11. speak clearly not mumbling or jittering, be confident in your words, get your point across.

12. its ok to laugh when your cool, people will respect you for being human like them.

13. be yourself dont just act.