Why some people are liked by everyone, everywhere at every time? They have got nothing special than they have mastered the royal art of “Being Liked” by people. Yes, the secret of becoming a people magnet. The following 7 simple but powerful ways will help anyone having a desire to be liked by others. May be public or private, these simple secrets are 100% applicable. All these tips are built up on grass root level so that anyone can apply it without “Theoretical Hazard” problems.

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            Smile – Heard and bored over and over? Wait, here is the difference. How to smile in fact? There comes the point, the Genuine Vs Fake test. To detect a fake test, nobody needs to be a body language expert. People will really like someone who is having a real smile on face. To make the smile genuine, just sit before the mirror and watch the smile. If the other guy/gal in the mirror is really attractive, the smile is just fine. Or if it seems as somebody mocking, the smile is to be modified.

Communication – In its simplest sense, is to be enjoyable. People really enjoy communication with a very minute share of guys who is really interesting to talk with. What is to be taken care for is both verbal and non-verbal communication.

As far as verbal communication is concerned, the words selected should be the happier words to be heard, happiest way to be presented. Giving special attention to the voice, pace and rhythm will help a lot.

In non-verbal communication, positive gestures rule the way. People understands whether someone is confident or not, from the eyes itself. Eyes and face should be seen in such a way that it is flood up with positive energy to be spread out to the world around.

Build Trust – People listens and gives attention to those whom they trust. Get credibility through accomplishment, not through words. This will act as a supporting pillar through out the journey.

Over deliver – Need not under promise, than what you can actually do but try to give over deliver. When people get something beyond their expectation, they get impressed. A sort of hero-worship arises there.

It is not the first impression – Don’t ever get depressed simply because you couldn’t make a first impression. Instead, go for making a lasting impression. People never underestimate anyone with a first impression. Even if they do so, it can easily be replaced by the “other guy” they come to know when they get in touch in detail.

Have something different – May it be the dress code, hair style, the mobile hanging out from hand – it is sure to get attention. People always seek something unusual in an ordinary world.

Be unpredictable – It is seen in almost all movies that the hero always unpredictable. What is the secret behind this? Nothing but the fellow audience should always expect something unexpected. Remaining as “NOT 100% DECODABLE” is another way to get in to the hearts and minds of the people.

The Magnetism comes from all the above mentioned factors which will fire up the ‘aura’ around you which will make people “busy” around you.

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