Now guys, you do see on the media these days that all you need is to be Nice. Like giving roses and telling her that she’s beautiful. Well, that is how we are being fooled (almost fooled for not all girls are the same, you know?) almost everyday. Our media, our family members, our traditions and regulations on relationships all tell us the same thing, and that is to be “Nice”.

However, that is NOT what we should do to get to our girls. For all our entire lives, we all thought complimenting her beautiful existence and giving her roses would get to her. There are better ways to get to her heart and sparing you from the heartbreak or embarrassment.

It’s not about being a Jerk..it’s about confidence.

Being a jerk does not help you get girls (though their confidence is what the girls chase after the jerks for). All that a girl wants in a man is being adventurous and that he is a confident alpha-male (you know, the leader of the pack type and such?). What you can do is to be confident in yourself, love yourself and be comfortable with yourself (not to the point of being narcissistic) so that women can see your aura and they will subconsciously sense your confidence and you’ll be comfortable talking with her and such.

Just be who you intend to be!

“Being Yourself” is a universal term coined to us by friends and maybe the rest of society just for us to get pretty girls. Now I love the thought of it, however it could backfire and be a limiting belief for yourself cause you might stagnate and if the case is that you’re not confident, you might just be “yourself, the not-confident type” and stay as is. You fix this with a simple and much more effective quote, “Be who you intend to be”. Yup, cause you improve yourself over the course of your life, and that it helps you and your inner mind that you be who you simply intend to be.

Words for now…

Now, I’ve learned these from dating mentors and from experience itself, all you need to do is to be confident. Not all the times do a girl like the “nice guy”, but they would surely love the company of a guy who has confidence and the right mindset. Try it out and see for yourself the amazing results. You can do it!