There’s a big problem within the past couple of decades. Something that isn’t usually taken in considerations. Whats is it? Relationships, seeming the most complicated and hard thing on earth when it’s really easy. This isn’t a guide for those people who would just like to, “Party and have fun”. This is for those people who really want a relationship to last and feel the feelings and emotions slipping away.

Now, if your still reading, you should know there’s no 100% guarantee that a relationship will work. There are certain things that are ESSENTIAL in a relationship. There is time need to be spent WITH each other; then there is time WITHOUT each other. Sometimes when you spend time with each other, make sure it’s alone time without anyone else bothering you too. And make sure you talk to each other. When your not near each other, be social with friends and family so you will both be smiling when you see each other. You guys will both be in a good mood and it will make your time spent feel much better. (Note: I am not a professional in relationships but sometimes people need to be reminded how nice things can be in relationships)

I’m calling this part couch time. Couch time is when you and your boyfriend or girlfriend or fiance or wife or husband just sit down and maybe hold hands, or cuddle, and talk. Some say, “My boyfriend doesn’t like to talk about problems or little things that bug me”. If that’s the case, just hold hands or have an arm around your special some one and wait for a conversation to start; just try to speak whatever is on your mind.

This part is called out time. Don’t always cuddle on a couch and give the occasional kiss. Get outside, go to a mall and just walk around. No matter how old you are, just spend time seeing the world or the country, or the state, or even just your town. Go out to dinner at a nice restaurant instead of McDonald’s once in a while. Go to a park, feed ducks, buy a couple cheap bikes and ride around, take a walk; There are thousands of things to do. While you do all these things it will slowly make you care about your lovely lady or handsome man more; just because your having fun and special times with them.

There are a thousand other tips but my fingers would fall off if I tried to type it all in one sitting. I will try to write more if anyone found this useful. Thank you for your reading and I mean thank you for your time.

Oh, and I almost forgot the most important thing of all; you need two people to have a relationship, and both people need to be committed to each other to make it work. There’s no exceptions to that. Thank you again for your time