1. OK everyone has at least one “good quality”. use this to your advantage as it is the most likely thing a girl is going to “notice” about you. using myself as an example, i have eyes that change colors from a darkish blue to a dimmed green. i try to show this off whenever i talk to a girl i like.
2. don’t make it obvious that your trying to show off. i don’t ask for a girl to look at my eye or anything, i blink my eyes 2-3 times real fast drawing there attention without making it obvious.
3. now that you have there attention try to talk to her about something you have in common. ex. a class at school, a hobby, music you like…
4. it is a clear fact that almost ever single girl like to laugh so after finding out what she likes try to bring in a joke or two pertaining to thins subject. be very careful about how you choose your words here because if you mess up bad enough it will put you both in an awkward position or even end the conversation.
5. by this time (if you haven’t messed things up yet) she should be fairly comfortable talking to you about small things like the hobbies or whatever you used to get her attention with. if you want to get her to “notice” you more you have to make more conversation with her until she is comfortable enough to hang out with you on a regular basis. this step can take anywhere from 2-3 hours to a couple days.(so be patient)
6. now that she is comfortable hanging out with you try making her feel more than just comfortable so that she starts telling you her “girl secrets” and such. (these aren’t really secrets. they are more like things that everyone is going to know about eventually but for a couple days or so no one knows) once your at this step you are either good friends with her or friends that everyone knows you like each other but nothing has happened yet. it is fairly easy from this point on to ask her out. good places to ask are at places where either no one is around like at one of your houses or an empty hallway at school. (assuming nothing is already happening here *wink wink*) or a fairly crowded area like a school courtyard or office room at work.
7. good ways to ask are try bringing up how you like going to a certain somewhere like a favorite restraint, a good movie, or maybe even a popular club or bar.

helpful tips

1. don’t talk about something that just you like or something she might find offensive, rood, or even something disgusting. ( i have had so many guys cum up to me asking why there joke about George bush farting during a speech didn’t make her laugh )
2. when trying to figure out your “good qualities”, don’t kid yourself. just because you shot a rat once in you life and killed it doesn’t make you a sharp shooter or assassin. neither one of these things are cool anyway so make sure its realistic and will impress a girl not you guy friends who are all adrenaline junkies
3. the more time you spend with her the more comfortable she will be with talking to you or accepting a date. you cant expect to get her right off the bat like you were hue hefner or something.
4. if she has a boyfriend/girlfriend dont try to do this stuff until she breaks up with him/her. this would bring up more trouble than its worth.if you are good enough friends with her and someone else starts dating her dont get mad just be patient and most likely they will break up. ( dont go trying to break them up or it might come back and bite you in the but later )