The first step in getting a girlfriend is finding a girl that you like. Now before you do any thing find if you truly like her and she is not a pretty face. Don’t be fooled by a pretty girl. A pretty girl might look nice on the outside, but nasty on the inside. The number one way people break up at this age is because not knowing what going on in side.

If you dont already have a girl you like that you know okay and you like them start the steps in getting her to be your girlfriend. If you don’t then don’t try to get one when you see the girl you want you can come back don’t force a relationship because it can never be good.

When you have found the girl you like the biggest mistake people at this age make is be mean you get them to talk to you. Being mean will get them to talk to you but they will never like you. Also don’t be shy try to be her friend looking at her from a far won’t do anything.

Ideas to make her your friend is hard i mean what can you do first of all if you are working on a school project and you need a partner ask her to be your partner that way you have a chance to talk to her up close and try to become friends with her. Another good way to make friends with her is at lunch go up and say hi and she will start saying it back in a few days trust me.

Once you have a some what friendship with her you it time to become good friends start talking to her in class if you sit by her or at lunch. Don’t make smalltalk talk about somthing you have incommon a good topic if you can’t think of one is music and movies.

Once you have a friendship continue doing thing like talking to her and getting to know her remember going from nothing to her to her boyfriend is not a 1 day or 1 week thing it takes months to do this, but keep making conversation to her and you will know the time is right.

Once you know the time is right wait for somthing that both of you can do tougether like the school dance or a movie she wants to see. Ask her out to find out if she likes you in the same way you like her now she will say yes. Remember that this step takes a while to get to it takes months. Never try and force this step if you don’t feel like the time is right. If you force 99 out of 100 she will say no and 70 out of 100 you will lose the friendship so be careful with this last step you and lose it all in a second with this question.