Feeling good about yourself and your friends.

-You go around lunch feeling bad and confuse who you going to sit with, even though you wish to sit with non popular people that you have more stuff in common you rather sit close to the popular people. Why? the thing is you can often think your been watched or you are getting laugh at by “cool kids” but when you get to think about its more likely they don’t even know your name or your not in their thinking ratio. You can be a shy person but your decided to change your attitude and be popular, Well first been a popular person its harder than a lot of people think. First Popular Teens around your school are extroverts and are naturally charismatic or “smooth talkers” doesn’t mean you don’t have stuff in common with other popular people you just find it hard to say it and often say the wrong thing when you meant to say something else.However why would you feel bad or uncomfortable to talk to certain person? If that person is not in the popular circle or people don’t know her/him doesn’t mean they hate her/him they simply don’t know her/him so feel comfortable and talk to her/him. what you must know is must of the time if you learn how to deal with different situations such as award moments when you are sitting in lunch or class with someone you don’t like, and once you learn how to deal with it you will just act the way you are.

The Beginning of the year in a new school/grade.

-Well its a new school year and even if you aren’t in a new school you might feel confuse and nervous. Some of the things you might want to do is, if while summer vacation you did wanted to change to be a new person or look better then do it, dress the way you want, If you were shy and never did ask anything on class then ask questions so people get use to your voice, and once you do it more than once any oral project will be pleasant or at least easier.However don’t try too hard, to be something you don’t really feel good about.

Your Friends and class Mates.

-When it comes To your class mates you want to give a good impression or at least make them want to respect you. If some of Your class mates are popular don’t be so desperate to fit in or if you have to sit close to popular class mates you need to know they are regular people just like you and probably thing different is they not afraid to say what they thinking out loud. Other than that you are must likely to find out they are very funny and charismatic persons so there is a huge chance you make friends with him/her. For those that you don’t have nothing in common with then at all or you simply don’t like them for various reasons however they keep trying to be your friends don’t reject them completely do as following, first you don’t want to be extremely friendly if you don’t like him/her because then you would be giving them the wrong signals and he/she are must likely to think your becoming close friends with her/him, what you want to do is giving them small part of you trust but not as much as you would give to a friend, Use you body language to deal with this type or person, don’t laugh opening your mouth simple put a smile with your mouth close,if they are kind to give you different things such as paper,pencils etc or just talk to you and keep you updated in the homework etc, don’t reject them totally, be kind and always say thank you that way they will or should know that they are just and simple class mates and nothing on.

As for friends, they are probably a great deal and decide if your school year is good or not. Friends are just looking for things to talk about and never stop talking to someone just because you no longer have a lot in common you might be surprised how you might get that person for a lot of classes and its better to be friendly and try to at least keep friendships so if you ever need to have someone to talk to because you don’t happen to have a lot of friends in a certain class its better to at least have someone than no one at all.

Not feeling confident with the way you look.

Believe it or not the way you look can often make you feel more confident when approaching to a situation, Or the way you will talk to new people in general. If you think because your obese/thin or not strong don’t just take it as “im fat” or “im not strong” remember when it comes to your look and physical condition nearly all of it can be fix and your probably the responsible to look the way you look. If you manage to make a routine and exercise every day or as much as you please you will achieve it and i know form my own experiences its possible. and don’t think just because you do 15-30 Min’s of work out a day its not enough. every little you do it counts and your muscles shape according to repetition of a certain action.

Final Words.

What i would recommend lastly is to Be positive when it comes to sittiations when dealing with new people or classes. If you happened to give a bad impression your first day of school or atleast you think you did let it go.You don’t know how it will go tomorrow or in 2 days or in 1 month or 10. When it comes to Homework , don’t slack off , you don’t need to be  a straight As student unless you really want to. But if you goal is to have a balanced school year then take it easy, make your routine when you get home. Do your home works then do whatever else you want to do. Dont be a mess keep track of whatever you need to turn in.

WIth this Said I can Only wish you a good school year.