Three Things in Life: Once Gone, Lost Forever
What are the three things in life which are once gone lost forever?

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Fame, money, riches, success in profession, admiration, power, physical beauty and condition are some of the things in life almost everyone wants to possess and dream of having. Some we get, some we don’t.
One can become famous and then end up being forgotten. But some famous stars and sports heroes manage to make comebacks and regain their popularity. One can have power, lose it and yet again regain it.
Famous Comebacks

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The world’s top-ranking cyclist Lance Armstrong was written of as a has-been after being diagnosed with testicular cancer, which had spread to his lungs and brain. Not only did he regain health, he won the prestigious Tour De France cycling tournament a record breaking seven times.
Johnny Cash had been diagnosed with degenerative Shy-Drager Syndrome and death-watches were expecting his death. He came back with haunting and inspired recordings and achieved greater success than ever before.

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In the early 1930s Winston Churchill was considered a spent force. But he came back to lead Britain through World War II and eventually being selected the Greatest Briton of all times year after year.
The Indian Prime Minister Indira Gandhi was thrown into jail by a court in 1977, while she was the prime minister. In 1980 an overwhelming majority voted her back into power.
Three Things That Never Come Back
There are three things in life that, once gone, never come back. They are
- Time
- Opportunity
- Words
No matter how rich or clever we are, we can never move the clock back and regain time already past.
An opportunity lost will never come back in the same form. Of course we can either slump into regrets and self-hatred or try to gain solace by reasoning that this was not to be and an even better opportunity will come.

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Words, which have left our mouth, can never be taken back. There is no magical “undo” button as on computer keyboards. You don’t have to be a politician to know that promises made and not kept or angry words spoken without control cause hurtful feelings or resentment. You can apologize, make amends and blame it on others but rather often, once the wrong words have left our mouths and have been heard, the damage is done. I still remember an elderly lady saying to another person twenty-five years ago “With my mouth I forgive, but in my heart I will not forget”. John F Kennedy said once “Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names”.
So watch out for your time, opportunity and words!
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13 Comments
Mr Ghaz, posted this comment on Jan 21st, 2009
Good work! very creative article. thanks for sharing
PR Mace, posted this comment on Jan 21st, 2009
All I can say is outstanding article.
rutherfranc, posted this comment on Jan 23rd, 2009
a very enlightening piece.. very inspiring too
Likha, posted this comment on Jan 23rd, 2009
An eye-opener! Nice work!
R J Evans, posted this comment on Jan 24th, 2009
Good stufF!
Inga Malmsten, posted this comment on Jan 30th, 2009
Nice article. Have to be careful with words now.
denus, posted this comment on Feb 2nd, 2009
nicely presented article, well done.
S Air, posted this comment on Feb 2nd, 2009
I enjoyed reading this, intresting aticle.
MichaelJoeKing, posted this comment on Feb 14th, 2009
I liked this. Dugg it for you. Good work.
Emma Bovary, posted this comment on Mar 22nd, 2009
Well, there’s one more thing – virginity!
Though I’ve read about old women getting revirginised surgically. But then once it’s done, you have knowledge, carnal knowledge.
dablu, posted this comment on Mar 22nd, 2009
nice piece of writing. I like it.but what about childhood, youthfulness old age…etc.
Edward N, posted this comment on Mar 22nd, 2009
Nice. I loved the virginity addition. What about reputation?












Sotiris, posted this comment on Jan 21st, 2009
Words… so true. Once you tell them, there is not way back. Even sorry isn’t enough to cure the pain.
Well written