Anais Nin The Person Within

Anais Nin The Person Within

There still goes on the augments about her life, whether she was evil, a feminist or troubled throughout but at the end of the day she was a literary genius no matter what she wrote about, she was an artist and as with most artistic people she was very emotional and passionate. She was noble and always trying to help young writer friends. Some people have a very blinkered outlook when they think about what or how a woman should write but should we be so stilted in this day and age of equal opportunities.

An extraordinary woman who became famous for her published life journals and erotic works.

 

She was born Angela, Anis, Juana, Antolina, Rosa, Edelmira, Nin y Culmell on February 21st 1903 in France (Neuilly). To a Father who was both a composer and a pianist named Joaquin Nin and a Mother who was a classically trained Cuban singer.

Life wasn’t always a family affair and after Anais’s Mother and Father’s marriage broke up Anais’s Mother took her and her two brothers to live in New York.

Anais started writing her journals at the age of 11 and only finished them shortly before her death. There are a few that say she lied in her journals but was that just artistic flare or her dream fantasy world? After all she did start them at a very early age and sometimes life is dull; to write an exciting account of her life did she just make it more colourful? At the age of 16 she quit school and started learning from life, she became a model and later in life she studied under Otto Rank, who was trained by Sigmund Freud to work in the field of psychotherapy. 

When her journals were published in the 60’s at the beginning of the feminist movement, women read them and wanted Anais’s life. They left their marriages, wanting to live independently with their own finances and sexuality. Anais had two husbands one that was very wealthy; she always had them around and never really lived a life of total independence.

 

She tried writing mainstream fiction but she could just not paint the literary picture. She found writing about herself and her desires, with the added flair and excitement of sex and relationships much easier and they rolled from her for over sixty years. However she did have a few fictional books published.

She lived her life with Henry Miller in Paris in 1931 – 1934 but there was no mention of her husband Hugh Parker Guiler whom she had married on March 3rd 1923 at the age of twenty. Anais moved back to New York and she went on to play the part of Astartein the film “Inauguration of the pleasure Dome.”

Yes she had lovers, quite a few famous authors and people in the public eye. The public were upset by the revelation that her diaries were not the whole truth and they turned against her when they should have just accepted that she was human, and that was how she had perceived the things she wrote in the journals, that were deemed so shocking to the point that nobody wanted them.

When she came back to France in her late teens with her Mother and two brothers they had rented an apartment where Anais found some French paperbacks of erotica, she studied them and after reading them all there was nothing she didn’t know about sex. Was this where Anais got her inspiration to write erotica? There were very few female erotic writers at that time but later in her life Anais had been given the title “One of the finest writers of female erotica” by many critics after the publication of her first erotica manuscripts, “Delta of Venus,” and “Little birds.”

She hadn’t intended to publish any of her erotic works that started out as a dollar a page for a silent collector, who demanded all the poetry be removed and she just write the sexual escapades. She always thought that would be the end of it and that the public would never see it.

As she was swept along into adulthood, with marriages and lovers, Anais also had an incest affair with her Father when she was in her 30’s. Much to her Fathers panic she titled one of her books “House of Incest,” her Father thought she had written a story about their affair but it wasn’t at all, it was about the burdens of life and how she tried to escape the dream in which she was trapped.

A film in 1990 was made about Anais’s novel, “Henry and June,” in the film she was portrayed as having relations with June but this never happened, She was a long time friend and lover of Henry Miller the famous American novelist and artist and nor was her Husband Hugh Guiler a push over, as he was portrayed in the film, it seemed he knew what was going on with Anais but chose to ignore it but he only found out she had married Rupert Pole, sixteen years her junior at the age of 44 in 1955 after her death in 1977. Soon after Anais’s first husband Guiler in 1985 died, Pole her second unlawful husband commissioned her journals with no censorship.  

 

There still goes on the augments about her life, whether she was evil, a feminist or troubled throughout but at the end of the day she was a literary genius no matter what she wrote about, she was an artist and as with most artistic people she was very emotional and passionate. She was noble and always trying to help young writer friends. Some people have a very blinkered outlook when they think about what or how a woman should write but should we be so stilted in this day and age of equal opportunities. 

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ceegirl, posted this comment on Nov 1st, 2009

Nice article, thanks for sharing.

cutedrishti8, posted this comment on Nov 1st, 2009

An interesting one to read

ken bultman, posted this comment on Nov 1st, 2009

Great bio of an interesting writer who lived a colorful life.

lindalulu, posted this comment on Nov 1st, 2009

Nice article with some good information on such a unique writer.

Lostash, posted this comment on Nov 1st, 2009

I’m not familiar with her work at all…may be worth reading some of her work. Seems an interesting and colourful character for sure.

Ruby Hawk, posted this comment on Nov 1st, 2009

I very likely have know about her but I don’t recall. She seems to have led an interestinglife.

Papa Sparks, posted this comment on Nov 1st, 2009

A fine write up, Lisa.

Teves, posted this comment on Nov 1st, 2009

Good Stuff…
From Teves

mo hoyal, posted this comment on Nov 1st, 2009

This was an interesting read, thanks for sharing with us!

Mystify, posted this comment on Nov 1st, 2009

What a fasinating biography of Anais Nin you have just written Lilly! Wow what a life! The only thing that turned me against her was the affair she had with her father,I mean being a child and suffering from incest is one thing but actually committing it in your adulthood with your own father is another.Excellent work and a very enjoyable read!

Christine Ramsay, posted this comment on Nov 2nd, 2009

You all have some great ideas. I am not sure about Hubby cooking for me though as all he cooks is a super hot curry.
Thanks again for reading.

Christine

giftarist, posted this comment on Nov 2nd, 2009

Great article, very interesting read!

lillyrose, posted this comment on Nov 2nd, 2009

Mystify, yes I am with you on the affair with her Father but they call it adult-onset incest, classic separation of parent and child from an early age coming together in adulthood and no that doesn’t make it any better or any more legal but it was an affair rather than abuse.

alc, posted this comment on Nov 2nd, 2009

Great article! Thanks for sharing!

Vikram Chhabra, posted this comment on Nov 2nd, 2009

This was new to me. I was not familiar with her work, but it was great to learn. Thanks for posting LR!!

STEVE666, posted this comment on Nov 2nd, 2009

Good stuff, Lily. Wow! Would have loved to have met her! A woman who sexually knows what she wants is such a turn-on.

Valerie Curtiss, posted this comment on Nov 2nd, 2009

I love to hear about women authors, they are usually quirky people, but then again, most of the talented people in the world are a little different, otherwise they wouldn’t be who they are.

Paul Roberts, posted this comment on Nov 2nd, 2009

A great write up and i like the way you respond back on a comment. Feels more like a on line exchange of writes and ideas. Your doing great, Fan, friend, smile.

Themax, posted this comment on Nov 3rd, 2009

Very clear,nice and thoughtful article :)
Thanks for sharing!!

PhoenixRox, posted this comment on Nov 3rd, 2009

As I was reading the bio and almost came to the end, I was wondering how hypocritical we are as a society. A guy having a similar life would not have as many people critisising him. Then I read what you wrote in the last line- Some people have a very blinkered outlook when they think about what or how a woman should write but should we be so stilted in this day and age of equal opportunities.

I could not agree more.

SimonMcT, posted this comment on Nov 3rd, 2009

I think for a balanced view of Anais Nin you really have to read Gore Vidal’s take on her in his memoirs.

CaSundara, posted this comment on Nov 5th, 2009

This was interesting, although I’ve never even heard of her. Maybe I’ll take a look in the library next time I’m there and see if they have anything written by her. What should I look for?

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